Movies: Black Panter 2, Thor 4, Werewolf by Night, GotG Holiday Special, Ant-Man 3, GotG 3
Apr. 22nd, 2025 10:25 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Black Panther: Wakanda Forever - I wasn't a big fan of this one which is too bad because I really liked the first movie. Some of the visuals were pretty amazing and I really liked specific stuff: M'Baku is still fucking hilarious, Shuri and Ross have a fun relationship, the ugliness of grief was very well portrayed and Riri is such an awesome addition to the MCU.
But damn, the villain was just freaking annoying, a lot of the movie simply bored me, and it just lacked the magic the first movie had.
Thor: Love and Thunder - I liked this for the most part. There were moments that felt too silly (the scene with Sif almost dying comes to mind) but also very well done moments. I also liked the visuals, especially these scenes in black/white. The world-building was also fun. I also loved Jane and Valkyrie together, that was such a great addition. And while I'm kinda disappointing about them bringing Jane back just to kill her off, I love that she got into Valhalla.
Werewolf by Night - This one was amazing. The noir style, the world-building, the characters. The relationship between Elsa and John works so well. I don't quite ship it because there wasn't enough time for me to really get into it but I kinda could. That scene when he pulls himself together when he is all wolfed out? So good. Also, Ted is adorable and I love his friendship with John.
The Guardians of the Galaxy: Holiday Special - I felt strangely uncomfortable watching this. I think the whole carelessness Drax and Mantis have going on when it comes to Kevin Bacon plus all the scenes that triggered my embarrassment squick kinda got to me. Though how alien Drax and Mantis can come off to humans, how threatening, was an interesting change in tone for these movies. Also loved Nebula in this. I wonder how she got Bucky's arm.
Ant-Man and The Wasp: Quantumania - Okay, this one was another disappointment. I always liked the Ant-Man stuff because it somehow felt more grounded than the rest of the MCU. This movie completely destroyed that. I also wasn't a fan of the way it treated Scott after Endgame and the change in the Scott&Cassie relationship. The ants in the realm were cool, though.
Guardians of the Galaxy Vol 3 - With this one, I'm back to liking Guardians stuff again. Loved, loved Rockets relationship with both Peter and Nebula. Especially Nebula, to be honest. They were the only ones who survived the Snap and their origin stories have so many parallels, I love seeing them together.
I also liked how New!Gamora fit in and didn't. Nebula just seeing her as her sister with some memory issues while Peter despairs about who she isn't is interesting to watch. Because they are both wrong but it has different consequences regarding the way they deal with Gamora.
Rocket's origin story is heartbreaking, and the villain is effective and scary and I really just wanted him dead.
In general, lots of great moments.
But damn, the villain was just freaking annoying, a lot of the movie simply bored me, and it just lacked the magic the first movie had.
Thor: Love and Thunder - I liked this for the most part. There were moments that felt too silly (the scene with Sif almost dying comes to mind) but also very well done moments. I also liked the visuals, especially these scenes in black/white. The world-building was also fun. I also loved Jane and Valkyrie together, that was such a great addition. And while I'm kinda disappointing about them bringing Jane back just to kill her off, I love that she got into Valhalla.
Werewolf by Night - This one was amazing. The noir style, the world-building, the characters. The relationship between Elsa and John works so well. I don't quite ship it because there wasn't enough time for me to really get into it but I kinda could. That scene when he pulls himself together when he is all wolfed out? So good. Also, Ted is adorable and I love his friendship with John.
The Guardians of the Galaxy: Holiday Special - I felt strangely uncomfortable watching this. I think the whole carelessness Drax and Mantis have going on when it comes to Kevin Bacon plus all the scenes that triggered my embarrassment squick kinda got to me. Though how alien Drax and Mantis can come off to humans, how threatening, was an interesting change in tone for these movies. Also loved Nebula in this. I wonder how she got Bucky's arm.
Ant-Man and The Wasp: Quantumania - Okay, this one was another disappointment. I always liked the Ant-Man stuff because it somehow felt more grounded than the rest of the MCU. This movie completely destroyed that. I also wasn't a fan of the way it treated Scott after Endgame and the change in the Scott&Cassie relationship. The ants in the realm were cool, though.
Guardians of the Galaxy Vol 3 - With this one, I'm back to liking Guardians stuff again. Loved, loved Rockets relationship with both Peter and Nebula. Especially Nebula, to be honest. They were the only ones who survived the Snap and their origin stories have so many parallels, I love seeing them together.
I also liked how New!Gamora fit in and didn't. Nebula just seeing her as her sister with some memory issues while Peter despairs about who she isn't is interesting to watch. Because they are both wrong but it has different consequences regarding the way they deal with Gamora.
Rocket's origin story is heartbreaking, and the villain is effective and scary and I really just wanted him dead.
In general, lots of great moments.
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Apr. 21st, 2025 01:20 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
I have a really bad cold, I must have caught it at the con, there were about a zillion people there. I don't think it's covid. I had to drag myself out of the house to get groceries including cold pills, the only kind they had at the store was some kind I never heard of. They were also out of some things I wanted, including dental floss but I'm too tired to go to other stores. I hope they work. I have to do laundry too, I am currently taking a breather and cooking lunch. Apart from this cold I'm in a good mood.
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Apr. 21st, 2025 11:45 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
* I keep thinking 'I'm pretty much over this cold or whatever, I just need a bit of a nap.... why is it tomorrow?'
How the fuck is it Monday?
* I was really looking forward to finishing Lost Records: Bloom & Rage now that the second half of the game it out, but the game thinks I didn't nab the main quest item from tape 1. I was a few hours into tape 2 before I realized it. As great as the story is, the actual mechanics are very futzy and slow, and this hasn't been the only bug. Some games are fun because of the actual game play, some are good in spite of the gameplay.
I don't have time for this, I am going to find a LP to finish it out.
* [pours salt circle around flist] I really should not engage about Murderbot outside of this space. At this point some of the discourse is so far removed from the reality of the canon I am pretty sure people are just making shit up to support their takes. Actually, in a few cases I am completely sure. Maybe once the show is out the hype will drown some of it out? I wonder if it's dropping weekly or all at once?
It's fine to relate in various ways or to have different takes, but there is some wild stuff out there. Not sure what I expected from the fandom that thinks I haven't really consumed the canon because I like the wrong audio adaptation.
How the fuck is it Monday?
* I was really looking forward to finishing Lost Records: Bloom & Rage now that the second half of the game it out, but the game thinks I didn't nab the main quest item from tape 1. I was a few hours into tape 2 before I realized it. As great as the story is, the actual mechanics are very futzy and slow, and this hasn't been the only bug. Some games are fun because of the actual game play, some are good in spite of the gameplay.
I don't have time for this, I am going to find a LP to finish it out.
* [pours salt circle around flist] I really should not engage about Murderbot outside of this space. At this point some of the discourse is so far removed from the reality of the canon I am pretty sure people are just making shit up to support their takes. Actually, in a few cases I am completely sure. Maybe once the show is out the hype will drown some of it out? I wonder if it's dropping weekly or all at once?
It's fine to relate in various ways or to have different takes, but there is some wild stuff out there. Not sure what I expected from the fandom that thinks I haven't really consumed the canon because I like the wrong audio adaptation.
'And everywhere a great smell of the sea'
Apr. 21st, 2025 04:47 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
There's a blackbird that's taken to standing on the kitchen roof (just below our bedroom window), singing its heart out every morning around 6am to greet the dawn. It's like a natural alarm clock, and it's such a gentle introduction to each new day that I can hardly begrudge it.
I didn't know I needed a four-day weekend so badly until I had one, with four days stretching gloriously ahead of me, every hour my own to do with as I chose. It ended up being the perfect balance and mixture of activities, planned in such a way that everything worked out seamlessly, with even the weather cooperating. I'm good at this — organising holidays at home — but I so rarely have the opportunity.
I've described everything below in words, but have a representative photoset, as well.
This extended weekend's events can be grouped under a series of subheadings, as follows:
Movement
I swam 1km at the pool, three times: on Friday, Sunday, and today, gliding back and forth through the water, which was blissfully empty today and Friday, but too crowded for my liking on Sunday morning. On Saturday, I went to my classes at the gym, and then Matthias and I walked 4km out to Little Downham (about which more below), through fields lined with verdant green trees and flowering fruit orchards, watched by sleepy clusters of cows and horses, and then returned home the same 4km way. I did yoga every day, stretchy and flowing in the sunshine, listening to the birdsong in the garden. Yesterday, Matthias and I walked along the sparkling river, and then back up through the market, which was full of the usual Sunday afternoon of cheerful small children and excitable dogs.
Wanderings
As is the correct way of things on long weekends, we roamed around on the first two days, and stuck closer and closer to home as the days wore on. On Friday night, we travelled out into the nearby village of Whittlesford (via train and rail replacement bus), and on Saturday we did the walk to Little Downham, but beyond that I went no further than the river, the market, and the gym, and I was glad of it.
Food and cooking
The Whittlesford trip was to attend a six-course seafood tasting menu with wine pairings, which was delicate, exquisite, and a lovely way to kick off the weekend. In Little Downham, we ate Thai food for lunch at the pub, cooked fresh, redolent with chili, basil and garlic. I made an amazing
oliahercules fish soup for dinner on Saturday, filled with garlic and lemon juice and briny olives and pickles. Last night I spent close to three hours cooking a feast of Indonesian food: lamb curry, mixed vegetable stir fry, slow-cooked coconut rice, and handmade peanut sauce, and it was well worth the effort. We'll be eating the leftovers for much of the rest of the week. We ate hot cross buns for breakfast and with afternoon cups of tea. We grazed on fresh sourdough bread, and cheese, and sundried tomatoes, and olives.
Growing things
On Sunday, we picked up some seedlings from the market: two types of tomato, cucumber, chives, and thyme, and I weeded the vegetable patches, and planted them. I was delighted to see that the sweetpea plant from last year has self-seeded, with seedlings springing up in four places. The mint and chives have returned, as have the various strawberry plants. Wood pigeons descend to strip the leaves from the upper branches of the cherry trees, and the apple blossom buzzes with bumblebees.
Media
The fact that we picked Conclave as our Saturday film this week, and then the Pope died today seems almost too on the nose (JD Vance seems to have been to the Pope as Liz Truss was to Queen Elizabeth II: moronic culture warring conservatives seem to be lethal to the ageing heads of powerful institutions), but I enjoyed it at the time. It reminded me a lot of Death of Stalin: papal politics written with the cynicism and wit of Armando Ianucci, and at the end everyone got what they deserved, and no one was happy.
In terms of books, it's been a period of contrasts: the horror and brutality of Octavia Butler's post-apocalyptic Xenogenesis trilogy, in which aliens descend to extractively rake over the remains of an Earth ruined by Cold War-era nuclear catastrophe, in an unbelievably blunt metaphor for both the colonisation of the continents of America, and the way human beings treat livestock in factory farming, and then my annual Easter weekend reread of Susan Cooper's Greenwitch, about the implacable, inhospitable power of the sea, cut through with selfless human compassion. Both were excellent: the former viscerally horrifying to read, with aliens that feel truly inhuman in terms of biology, social organisation, and the values that stem from these, and unflinching in the sheer extractive exploitation of what we witness unfold. It's very of its time (for something that's so interested in exploring non-cis, non-straight expressions of gender and sexuality, it ends up feeling somewhat normative), and while the ideas are interesting and well expressed, I found the writing itself somewhat pedestrian. It makes me wonder how books like this would be received if they were published for the first time right now. Greenwitch, as always, was a delight. Women/bodies of water is basically my OTP, and women and the ocean having emotions at each other — especially if this has portentous implications for the consequences of an epic, supernatural quest — is my recipe for the perfect story, so to me, this book is pretty close to perfect.
I've slowly been gathering links, but I think this post is long enough, so I'll leave them for another time. I hope the weekend has been treating you well.
I didn't know I needed a four-day weekend so badly until I had one, with four days stretching gloriously ahead of me, every hour my own to do with as I chose. It ended up being the perfect balance and mixture of activities, planned in such a way that everything worked out seamlessly, with even the weather cooperating. I'm good at this — organising holidays at home — but I so rarely have the opportunity.
I've described everything below in words, but have a representative photoset, as well.
This extended weekend's events can be grouped under a series of subheadings, as follows:
Movement
I swam 1km at the pool, three times: on Friday, Sunday, and today, gliding back and forth through the water, which was blissfully empty today and Friday, but too crowded for my liking on Sunday morning. On Saturday, I went to my classes at the gym, and then Matthias and I walked 4km out to Little Downham (about which more below), through fields lined with verdant green trees and flowering fruit orchards, watched by sleepy clusters of cows and horses, and then returned home the same 4km way. I did yoga every day, stretchy and flowing in the sunshine, listening to the birdsong in the garden. Yesterday, Matthias and I walked along the sparkling river, and then back up through the market, which was full of the usual Sunday afternoon of cheerful small children and excitable dogs.
Wanderings
As is the correct way of things on long weekends, we roamed around on the first two days, and stuck closer and closer to home as the days wore on. On Friday night, we travelled out into the nearby village of Whittlesford (via train and rail replacement bus), and on Saturday we did the walk to Little Downham, but beyond that I went no further than the river, the market, and the gym, and I was glad of it.
Food and cooking
The Whittlesford trip was to attend a six-course seafood tasting menu with wine pairings, which was delicate, exquisite, and a lovely way to kick off the weekend. In Little Downham, we ate Thai food for lunch at the pub, cooked fresh, redolent with chili, basil and garlic. I made an amazing
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Growing things
On Sunday, we picked up some seedlings from the market: two types of tomato, cucumber, chives, and thyme, and I weeded the vegetable patches, and planted them. I was delighted to see that the sweetpea plant from last year has self-seeded, with seedlings springing up in four places. The mint and chives have returned, as have the various strawberry plants. Wood pigeons descend to strip the leaves from the upper branches of the cherry trees, and the apple blossom buzzes with bumblebees.
Media
The fact that we picked Conclave as our Saturday film this week, and then the Pope died today seems almost too on the nose (JD Vance seems to have been to the Pope as Liz Truss was to Queen Elizabeth II: moronic culture warring conservatives seem to be lethal to the ageing heads of powerful institutions), but I enjoyed it at the time. It reminded me a lot of Death of Stalin: papal politics written with the cynicism and wit of Armando Ianucci, and at the end everyone got what they deserved, and no one was happy.
In terms of books, it's been a period of contrasts: the horror and brutality of Octavia Butler's post-apocalyptic Xenogenesis trilogy, in which aliens descend to extractively rake over the remains of an Earth ruined by Cold War-era nuclear catastrophe, in an unbelievably blunt metaphor for both the colonisation of the continents of America, and the way human beings treat livestock in factory farming, and then my annual Easter weekend reread of Susan Cooper's Greenwitch, about the implacable, inhospitable power of the sea, cut through with selfless human compassion. Both were excellent: the former viscerally horrifying to read, with aliens that feel truly inhuman in terms of biology, social organisation, and the values that stem from these, and unflinching in the sheer extractive exploitation of what we witness unfold. It's very of its time (for something that's so interested in exploring non-cis, non-straight expressions of gender and sexuality, it ends up feeling somewhat normative), and while the ideas are interesting and well expressed, I found the writing itself somewhat pedestrian. It makes me wonder how books like this would be received if they were published for the first time right now. Greenwitch, as always, was a delight. Women/bodies of water is basically my OTP, and women and the ocean having emotions at each other — especially if this has portentous implications for the consequences of an epic, supernatural quest — is my recipe for the perfect story, so to me, this book is pretty close to perfect.
I've slowly been gathering links, but I think this post is long enough, so I'll leave them for another time. I hope the weekend has been treating you well.
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Apr. 20th, 2025 06:18 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
I had so much fun at the My Little Pony convention! Lots of laughs, lots of partying, lots of food, looked at interesting swag. it was a great opportunity to get to know the two friends who invited me better and they are both super super nice and generous. Saw some amazing costumes. my friends gave me a couple of plushies. I swam 16 laps in the pool (first time I had my leg scar exposed in public which I was nervous about but nobody seemed to care or notice). First time I ever played Rock Band and I sang Freebird. I know that has fuck all to do with ponies but it was cool and I went over well. I'm super tired right now, did not sleep well over the weekend but it was worth it
5 Wants + Shadow work metacognition
Apr. 20th, 2025 06:58 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
5 Wants + underlying Unmet Needs: ( Read more... )
In shadow work news, either I’m really good at sliding sideways around things that make me uncomfortable, or the people who wrote the Shadow work prompts I’ve been using are way too fucking neurotypical for the way they frame things to be helpful for me. Like, the last prompts implied that I should rate my loved ones on a hierarchy? Which does make me uncomfortable, but for autism-type “my brain doesn’t do that” reasons and not “this is a part of yourself that your past has taught you to disavow” type reasons. I may need to go get a library card and check out some print media on the subject, or just start doing a bunch more thinking about the questions and figuring out whether they can even be helpful or if I need to rewrite them the way I rewrote so much of the cisheteropatriarchy out of the CBT workbook prompts here.
In shadow work news, either I’m really good at sliding sideways around things that make me uncomfortable, or the people who wrote the Shadow work prompts I’ve been using are way too fucking neurotypical for the way they frame things to be helpful for me. Like, the last prompts implied that I should rate my loved ones on a hierarchy? Which does make me uncomfortable, but for autism-type “my brain doesn’t do that” reasons and not “this is a part of yourself that your past has taught you to disavow” type reasons. I may need to go get a library card and check out some print media on the subject, or just start doing a bunch more thinking about the questions and figuring out whether they can even be helpful or if I need to rewrite them the way I rewrote so much of the cisheteropatriarchy out of the CBT workbook prompts here.